So Much for March 10th

So my due date has been March 10th and, I guess, it still is there is just one little fly in the ointment. Because of the cancer my doctors are talking about delivering the baby in February so that I can start my chemo. That's fine, I understand that it's necessary but we are totally unprepared to have this baby in 4 weeks. We have a crib but no hardware with which to put it together, we don't have any dipers or bottles or formula or anything but some clothes and a baby bath, not even a car seat. I know we need to have a shower and were/are planning on it but this moves up the schedule quite a bit. My girlfriend is planning one for me but we were planning with a March 10th due date in mind and she is going out of town the last week in January and we need to have the shower the first week in February. What the heck are we going to do, we certainly can't afford to buy all this baby stuff ourselves. I've called her twice now and e-mailed twice and have not received a responce. At this point I'm getting a little freaked out.